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  • Incapable of collecting taxes & undertaking disinvestment: Ache Din, still a dream? Union Budget 2022-23

    Incapable of collecting taxes & undertaking disinvestment: Ache Din, still a dream? Union Budget 2022-23

    Narendra Modi’s only JNU Lutyens warrior and one of the urban-intellect colleagues, Nirmala Sitharaman presented the budget for the second time under the clouds of the Covid-19 pandemic as a union Finance Minister in Modi 2.0 Government. 

    Indian Economy is itself on an uncertain path in times of a pandemic having dynamic & unprecedented situations and with a desperate urge to revival. Three days ago, the economic survey mentioned a bounceback by Narendra Modi- govt leading the world towards economic growth in a post-pandemic scenario.
    For Policymakers and for critics who held a high hope were because of these below reasons:

    1. Ongoing Third wave of Omicron
    2. Political Spectrum liability as of upcoming elections in Five States
    3. Fiscal deficit and an incremental tax collection, still a promised land,
    4. Post-Pandemic Economic Recovery

    There were quite mixed emotions regarding Sitharaman’s Budget. For instance, Economists hailed Sitharaman’s move for a “bold front foot budget” as it focuses and acknowledges fiscal expansion but also showed a red flag concerning the proposals and steps for not acknowledging the issues of inequitable growth amid pandemic with debt sustainability and sovereign rating align the fiscal deficit pegged at 6.8 percent of GDP in FY22 from 9.5 percent for FY21.

    Sources: NDTV

    Sitharaman ignored the genuine concerns over the impact that Chidambaran also mentioned on the sovereign rating that has been sidelined in the 2022 budget by mentioning a wider fiscal deficit instead to acknowledge the growth needs. After multiple lockdowns and after 2020-21 low economic revival, experts hoped for this budget to be a fiscally expansionary one, given the concerns but it went south instead.

    One another, the country’s well-claimed economists from HDFC Bank’s Abheek Bara quoted the Budget in this below statement, “ Sitharaman’s budget does not adequately acknowledge the concerns over India’s inequitable economic growth which has been a serious worry across the world due to the Covid.

    Similarly, another expert, Japanese brokerage Nomura’s country head Prabhat Awasthi interpreted the budget by saying that there is no major attempt to redistribute incomes by increasing taxes on high-income rich groups, as was the case earlier from the government.

    There was no mention of MGNREGA, of Defence, of any other urgent priorities facing the public, or any DBS (Direct Benefit schemes). Considering the current situation, rural India is facing terrible inflation and there’s no tax relief or reward for the middle class. SItharaman’s Budget seems to be pushing the mirage of Modi’s  ‘achhe din’ even farther away, said many opposition parliamentarians.

    In my opinion, the government should prioritize boosting public expenditure without being much worried about the fiscal deficit numbers. As per experts’ words, The deficit can be funded and sustained using borrowings, already available in the global market.

    In the end, quoting the Economy Survey 2022 that has projected the Indian economy to grow by 8-8.5 percent in real terms if everything is good.

    The prime focus of India’s Financial Sector should be to achieve the targeted economic growth and it can only be done by pumping funds and boosting Direct Benefits schemes into the economy.

    Sources: NDTV, INDIA TODAY, INDIAN EXPRESS

    Image Credits: Given
    Views are Personal.

    #Union Budget #Budget2022-23, #FinanceMinister #NirmalaSitharaman, #NarendraModi, #capitalexpenditure (capex), #budgetspeech

  • Expat Syndrome

    By Troy Headrick In my previous blog, “The Peculiar Person,” I wrote about joining the Peace Corps and being sent to serve in the wonderful country …

    Expat Syndrome
  • Congress State units VS Congress’s Chief Ministers while Gandhis at 10 Janpath eat pop-corn in New Delhi.

    Congress State units VS Congress’s Chief Ministers while Gandhis at 10 Janpath eat pop-corn in New Delhi.

    Sources: National Herald

    What Captain-Sidhu vocal fight spat says about Congress in power? It’s only 8-9 months remaining for the assembly polls, CM Amarinder Singh should be gearing up for the Punjab election. But he is diverted responding to Congress high command’s summons and resolving in New Delhi. The long battle run between a long-time Gandhi Loyalist like Captain and 2018 BJP turned Congress Sidhu in Punjab betrays a puzzling weakness of the all-time Congress — its inability to keep its house in order even in states where it is strong and in power (Et.al: Rajasthan, Chhattisgarh ). Recently, Navjot Sidhu visited 12, Tughlak Lane (Rahul Gandhi’s Residence), and Priyanka Gandhi Vadra also accompanied him and Sidhu’s media handle posted a photo saying that Sidhu and Priyanka had a long productive & fruitful meeting. Also, Captain met with Interim INC President to make sure that Punjab’s House of cards is in order.

    Sources: NDTV

    Captain on the other hand, is perhaps the Congress’ strongest chief minister & old Gandhis Loyalist and Rajiv’s old time friend and colleague. Critics in the media say that he should be gearing up for the assembly election due in his state next year. But he is instead busy responding to the summons of the top leadership and resolving petty intra-party conflicts and Congress might lose the state because of all this.

    Infighting in state units isn’t unusual for political parties whether it’s BJP or Congress. But Congress seems to have made a habit of it and doesn’t seem to be learning from its past mistakes. There are several real-time scenarios of Congress vs Congress when the party is in power, say, for example, Assam, Rajasthan, Madhya Pradesh, and recently last ruled baton Punjab. One Strong Party faces VS Gandhis Loyalist. All these summarizes and mean only one thing — a disconnected high command unable to take timely and prudent decisions. Many Political analysts have suggested that with the Gandhis especially Rahul being unable to deliver national success (11 State Elections and 2 General Elections), it should just play the role of moderator or holding company to many autonomous state-level Congress chapters by being on the outside.

    Unable to focus and losing the paradigm when acting as a ruling party

    Indian National Congress’ situation in Punjab 5 years back, a state the party won decisively with a great edge and by defying the ‘Modi factor or Modi wave (back when it use to be a Jargon)’ in 2017, is just a continuation of what seems to have become a perturbing paradigm for the ruling party.

    Sources: Hindustan Times

    Let’s recall Circa, Assam  2015. Assam Congress under stalwart Tarun Gogoi (now no more, died in 2020) had been in power for three consecutive terms. A great combination was a beloved veteran at the central helm and an astute regional leader in Himanta Biswa Sarma, who understood mass politics and had administrative experience. And yet, the Gandhis couldn’t keep their act together. An unhappy Himanta Sarma stormed out and joined the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) and also now sworn in as Chief Minister while Sonawal as Cabinet Minister in the recent Cabinet reshuffle. Since 2014, the general elections Congress Party has been burdened by a string of losses and an array of electoral marginalization but luckily found its much-needed booster shot in the 2018 December Assembly elections, defeating a powerful State BJP in three crucial Hindi Heartland states — Rajasthan, Madhya Pradesh, & Chhattisgarh.

    But, the happy times were short-lived and turned out to be temporary. In two of those states, Rajasthan and Madhya Pradesh,  things soon began to unravel with two key party leaders at loggerheads with each other on many occasions.

    Sources: INC India Media Gallery

    The CM Ashok Gehlot- Rajasthan PCC Chief Sachin Pilot saga in Rajasthan unfolded in the ugliest of ways, and destabilized the government, and caught the eye of everyone. Tensions continue to simmer & grow, even as the ‘will he, won’t he’ Media questions about Pilot leaving the jumping ship to the rivals seem to have become a perennial talking point at that time and even sometimes now. In Madhya Pradesh, the party was unluckier and acted a complete fool of themselves. Kamalnath’s Congress bogged down by a Mass leader Jyotiraditya Scindia unhappy at not being made the chief minister as Gandhis should have, the Kamal Nath-led Congress government eventually collapsed, with Scindia making a high-profile entry into the BJP and now sworn as a Cabinet  Civil Aviation Minister after waiting for 15 months. Analyst says that Rahul-Scindia Duo could revive the grand-old party but it all seems a dream now for hard-core Congressmen.

    Sources: Rahul Gandhi’s Twitter Gallery

    At last, The infighting in the Chhattisgarh Congress between CM Bhupesh Baghel and T.S. Singh Deo may not have caught the National Media’s eye, but is hardly not noticeable. With all this foolishness and acting lazy at a crucial time, the grand old party has smoothly established how being in power and yet crumbling has become it’s new normal. Still, Gandhi’s lives in denial that all’s well. 

    Sources: Getty Images

    In Assam 2015, for instance, it was evident and very obvious that Mr. Gandhi wasn’t the biggest fan of Himanta (Mass Public leader )and wanted to ensure the baton passed on to Tarun Gogoi’s son, Gaurav (MP and Rahul’s close aide), in line with then-CM’s desire. A seasoned & visionary leadership, in control of such a critical situation, ought to have found a positive way to walk the deadly tightrope by pacifying and ensuring both sides and everyone gets a fair share of the pie (like Sonia Gandhi used to do). But that situation was so poorly handled that the Gandhis ended up giving away its biggest asset in the region to the Modi-Shah’s BJP, nicely gift-wrapped with the best wishes, and lost Assam. 

    Is Punjab power bastion crisis like the next Assam or Madhya Pradesh? Will 10 Janpath in the Mainstream be able to solve other petty intra-party conflicts!

    Regional or National or any political parties in power, especially in this hard-core Modi-Shah era, it is imperative and naive to use their time to strengthen themselves and establish a vote bank. Because in opposition, especially in Pro-Media BJP era, it is always going to be an uphill and challenging task evading and combatting attacks from the Shah’s BJP and protecting your key players from jumping ship to go where the grass is ‘greener’ and sun is brighter.

    Sources: Punjab Kesari

    For the party, however, it seems to be working exactly the opposite. Two key players in every congress ruled state are perpetually busy fighting instead of consolidating hold or focusing for future electoral battles against the strongest ever BJP, as a result of a travesty for a party that is only reduced to 50-odd seats in Lok-sabha, with chief ministers in just three states — Rajasthan, Punjab, and Chhattisgarh also acting as a liability for Akhilesh in 2017 and for Tejasvi in recent Bihar.

    Sources: Hindustan Times

    At the core of this recurring crisis lies the inability of the party high command, the Gandhis, to manage party affairs tactfully and effectively while making everyone unhappy. The 125 year’s Grand old party is unlikely to stare at a very dark future (2024). 

    Firstly, a very weak central leadership impacts the thought process of state leaders, who are sure that they are able to win elections on their core merit and deserve what they want from the high Command. Secondly, the Gandhis, after 2009, have proved to be ineffective in managing the diverse ambitions and desires of their party leaders and office bearers, resorting to playing favorites in worst situations or dismissing their concerns like Scindia, Sharma, and Jitin Prasada.

    RPT-New Delhi: Congress President Sonia Gandhi and General Secretary Rahul Gandhi participate in a celebration following NSUI’s win in DUSU elections in New Delhi on Saturday. PTI Photo by Vijay Verma(PTI9_15_2012_000153B)

    Talking about June-July’s Punjab crisis, it is scary and threatening that this Congress-ruled state is another going to be an potential example of Gandhi’s leadership failing to reign in squabbling leaders in time. Congress is ensuring that there is no light at the end of the tunnel by allowing even hard-earned wins to turn into pathetic losses and lack of vision in gaining the lost public grounds.

    Content Reference: The Hindu, The Print, Hindustan Times (Online Editorials)

    Image Credits: Mentioned in Visuals

    Views are Personal

  • Apartheid Israel overwhelmed by a colonial intruder, unfolding Zionist Project that stole their land, trampled on their dignity, and made Palestinians victimized strangers

    Apartheid Israel overwhelmed by a colonial intruder, unfolding Zionist Project that stole their land, trampled on their dignity, and made Palestinians victimized strangers

    (The mother of a Leila al-Ghandour (C), a Palestinian baby of 8 months who according to the Palestinian health ministry died of tear gas inhalation during clashes in East Gaza the previous day, holds her at the morgue of al-Shifa hospital in Gaza City on May 15, 2018 / AFP PHOTO / MAHMUD HAMS)

    The recent devastating crisis of Palestine/Apartheid Israel of April Month deepens & also made an enormous leap depth when it involves casualties mount, heavy smoke from destroyed buildings fills the air in Gaza-strip, huge rioting on the streets of the many Israelis and West Bank towns. After almost seven decades , once again the Israelis have begun a relentless attack on Gaza, much within the way they did in 2014 during what was called Operation Protective Edge (they named it), which led to quite a terrible numbers of 2,100 Palestinian deaths, 500 of whom were children. Israeli police disrupting and detaining worshipers within the Al-Aqsa mosque compound and protecting extremist Right-wing Jewish settlers shouting genocidal slogans ‘death to the Arabs’ in inflammatory marches through Palestinian neighborhoods of Jerusalem in the holy month depicts the sad reality of Oppression at it’s peak.

    Sources: Getty Images

    The whole debacle started and erupted a tense situation between oppressor and oppressed by the legalized evictions of six Palestinian families long resident within the Sheikh Jarrah, which for Palestinians epitomized their long ordeal of persecution and banishment in what psychologically remains their homeland since decades. All this unfolded within the Muslim holy month of Ramadan and therefore the date of the creation of the state of Israel, which Palestinians mark because the Nakba, was fast approaching.  While this mayhem continued within the early week of may month, the lights have remained scandalously dim at the United Nations and the First World Countries. Western leaders and large Names pathetically involve calm on each side as if they were equal, while perversely affirming the one-sidedness of ‘Israel’s right to defend itself as if it had been attacked out of the blue which again sounds ridiculous. India being a long-ally to Israel, was seen doomed with all the Humanitarian remarks and yelled for peace & truce. Yes, the comparison between the High and Low is itself devastating remarks and puts an enormous interrogation point over the UN’s Narrative. Only the longer term coming decades can fully unravel this haunting uncertainty. within the meantime, we will expect more bloodshed, death, outrage, grief, injustice, and continuing geopolitical interference like 1947-67 and 2014.

    Sources: Al Zazeera

    As per the April-May months events, is that the world witnessing the start of the top of the century long-due struggle by the Palestinian people to defend their homeland against the unfolding Zionist Project that stole their land, trampled on their dignity, and made Palestinians victimized strangers in what had been their national home for centuries? 

    What these sad events have made clear is that the Palestinians (the oppressed ones) identified with stones, are withstanding prolonged oppression with their spirit of resistance intact, and refuse pacification no matter the severity of the imposed hardships. The Final Tally marks at least 243 people, including more than 100 women and children, who were killed in Gaza, according to its health ministry bulletin. Israel Foreign Affairs has said it killed at least 225 militants (Gaza Strip) during the fighting. Hamas has not given casualty figures for fighters.

    Sources: BBC

    On 21st May, A ceasefire between Israel Forces and the Palestinian militant group Hamas in the Gaza Strip appeared to be holding hours after coming into effect. It began early on Last week of May’s Friday, bringing to an end 11 days of fighting in which more than 250 people were killed, most of them in Gaza. As the whole world watches both Israel and Hamas claimed victory in the conflict and marked their territory.

    Note: Views are Personal

    Content Reference: The Wire, BBC First, NYT, Al-Zazeera

    Image Sources: Getty Images 

  • There’s going to be a Third-wave sooner or later, having 3-5 Lakhs cases per day in Mid-September or October. Prep up India!

    There’s going to be a Third-wave sooner or later, having 3-5 Lakhs cases per day in Mid-September or October. Prep up India!

    This 22nd June’s Tuesday, India recorded 42,640 new cases of Covid across the Nation. At its peak in May, the country was reporting about 4 lakh cases daily and we are now at a 2.6 % positivity rate.

    (Sources: Hindustan Times)

    As of now, the experts are worried and are having significant anxiety that there’s going to be a potential third wave. The experts are quoting IIT-K Team research of possible and feasible three scenarios for the Third Covid wave. They have cited data from 2nd wave as the core base for this new study. They are labeling this research work as the New Prediction Model and also assume that the Entire Nation will fully unlock by Mid-July but however the Vaccination drives aren’t referred to in this assumption.

    As the Nation was devastated by the second COVID-19 wave, another potential possibility of a third wave is frightening for 1.3 B Indians. Team IIT-Kanpur’s Prediction Model Theory hints that India is likely to see a surge in Covid Cases in Mid-September as GOI will fully unlock India with very few restrictions and will open up the entire country to the rest of the world. The Team also stated that in the worst-case scenarios, India is likely to report a peak over 4 Lakh daily covid cases in Mid-September.

    However, the newly published Prediction Model hasn’t taken the Huge Vaccination Drive into consideration. This will have a significant impact in breaking the chain of submission and transmission of upcoming community transfer.

    The accountable use of the SIR Model which is the susceptible-infected-recovered (SIR) model implies that the theoretical book number of the population infected with a contagious illness in a very closed-loop population over a significant period and other respective data were used for three scenarios of a potential third wave by the IIT Kanpur team, headed by two professors Rajesh Ranjan and Sir Mahendra Verma.

    (Image Sources: https://www.iitk.ac.in/new/covid-19-outbreak-in-india)

    Decoding the Epidemiological model, the two professors came to an assumption that most of the metropolitans will be unlocked by Mid-July. 

    Considering the April-May’s 2nd wave data, the team assumes that restrictions will be lifted and Night Curfew with all the Travelling restrictions will be eased off. This will lead to the most unlikely third wave in October and this will peak to a certain height of 3-4 lakh (lower than 2nd wave) on a daily basis in September. Recently, Pune, Delhi, and Mumbai reported the “New Delta Variant Virus” and it will mutate more infectious SARS-CoV2 variants. In the second scenario, with no Restrictions and Liberal Masks Policies just like Westen Countries, the number could reach 5 lakhs on a daily basis with a high mortality rate. Also, northeast, such as Mizoram, Manipur, and Sikkim were excluded during the second wave but can be a part of the third one.

    The third scenario is a little preventive scenario where the GOI will still be a stronghold to Covid Policies and restrictions will be partially imposed so that the peak of the third wave can be stalled or maybe even delayed till the last week of October. The Case tally will be less than 2 lakh with stricter interventions on a daily basis.

    The above all three aspects were a clear indication that the Third wave could surpass the previous waves and would turn out to be more devastating.

    But the Prediction Model is only an Assumption: Not a Reality!

    We can see the SIR Model as an Assumption theory as it only counts and assumes the entire Nation’s population being equally held susceptible to the new variants and also ignores the fact that India is leading mass vaccination drive among the whole world.

    The second drawback is that the Model has accepted the Indian Population being closed as if the migratory flow is none and in or out is occurring only through birth and death of a person.

    As mentioned earlier, the core stakeholder “ Mass Vaccination Drive” is excluded from the study. Vaccination is meant to prohibit the transmission of surging cases. We will be soon needing a Revised Updated Model that includes Vaccination Scenarios with the most recent updated Real-time Covid Cases data for a crystal clear remark.

    With this, the team concludes a hypothetical yet real potential forecast of “Could-be-true theory”. 

    As India unlocks, the anxiety among the Policymakers increases with the Term “Third Wave”.

  • The Indian Tech Industry’s Quest for Global Dominance

    The Indian Tech Industry’s Quest for Global Dominance

    Talking about China’s tech industry that enters a new year after weathering unprecedented turbulence in 2020, when giants emerged in social media along with artificial intelligence only to bear the brunt of Washington’s campaign to contain the world’s No. 2 economies. As per given Washington’s increasing hostility, China’s Tech Market is now even more driven to devise alternatives to foreign technology from AI chips to block-chain solutions while propping up local champions: bad news for the likes of Qualcomm Inc. and Apple Inc. that majorly depend on China for much of their revenue. It’s started to upend a decades-old supply chain centered around China, threatening to split the old world order in two. It’s not just in hardware — from Russia to Southeast Asia, many governments have begun to co-opt characteristics of the Chinese internet arena, from harsh fake-news laws to censorship and data sovereignty.
    (Sources: Bloomberg tech)

    I have mentioned five factors that can showcase how Indian Tech Industry will dominate the global tech-market trends as follows:

    First Factor: China Loses a Tech Generation as the Big Payoff Promise Fades & How Indian Tech Market can grow in this US-China trade war? 

    Well, another major reason for China losing its grip on a Global scale is because things aren’t great in Beijing too. A generation of Chinese tech workers is confronting a new reality as the industry endures its worst slump since the 2008 financial crisis. China’s broader economic slowdown and the trade war with the U.S. Markets have ended the boom that birthed heavyweights including Alibaba Group Holding Ltd. and Tencent Holdings Ltd. Startups in Greater China have raised $32.5 billion via venture capital deals so far in 2019, less than a third of 2018’s $111.8 billion, data from research and consulting firm Preqin shows. Job losses are mounting, and hiring has slowed: Job postings in the internet and e-commerce sector dropped about 13% in the second quarter, according to recruitment platform Zhaopin. Entrepreneurs are less willing to form ventures, so the pace of startup creation has slowed. China’s Communist Party has been grappling for months with foreign threats to the country’s tech sector. In last May the U.S. banned telecom equipment giant Huawei Technologies Co. from buying American components, and other Chinese tech companies feared a similar fate. They are mounting discontent among tech workers could hamper the industry’s growth, creating yet another headache for the government. “Facing a more difficult payoff, China’s 996 workers may lose enthusiasm,” says Brock Silvers, managing director for Shanghai-based investment firm Kaiyuan Capital. “This is precisely contrary to the needs of China’s developing tech sector.” These were some major highlights of how China has been isolated globally since the last quarters & is about to face the most devastating consequences in the upcoming decade.

    In 2019, there has not been much of a change in the terms of policy or language issues. What has changed, experts say, is that software has become all-pervasive, from automobiles and manufacturing to home appliances and mobile phones. This might be just what Indian companies need. Indian IT players such as L&T Technology Services, TCS, HCL Tech, and Tech Mahindra are already working with automotive clients across the world.

    For instance, TCS helps Nissan Motors with a vehicle analytics system. In recent times, Chinese firms such as Xiaomi, Huawei, and Vivo have set up R&D centers in India. In fact, Huawei’s largest R&D center after China is in India.

    Second Factor: Coronavirus has pushed most startups and tech companies to mandate work-from-home for employees & this might help Indian Techies to be more global

    The coronavirus pandemic has forced people around the world to give up their daily lives and limit themselves to their homes. Such a drastic change in behavior has obviously had an impact on businesses everywhere, including in India, where many IT giants, startups, and corporates have also asked employees to work from home. However, this impact is not just limited to their balance sheets but also to their day-to-day operations.

    1. Indian Tech are also adapting Remote Hiring

    Indian Techies whether they are from Service Industry or belong to a Product based sector are now adapting the WFH culture. Besides keeping employee spirits high, startups have also been grappling with how remote work has impacted the hiring and onboarding of new recruits. While most have put new hiring on hold, many are relying on a combination of online interviews and remote working tools to onboard new employees. Similarly, startups are using video calling, multiple phone calls with various stakeholders such as HR and the respective team managers to make up for the lack of in-person onboarding. “Given the current scenario, there’s a whole new era of digital literacy that is already upon us and we are taking concrete measures to adapt to the new ecosystem”. 

    1. Indian Tech Industry is managing Infrastructure Challenges:

    In any other circumstances, remote work might not have been restricted to just working from home, remote employees could have worked from a cafe or co-working spaces or even from their friends’ place. But at the moment, it’s strictly limited to the home, where infrastructure is unreliable at the best of times. Over time, people might realize that their home internet is not that great for work purposes or power outages might become a problem as summer creeps in. And the brunt of this challenge obviously falls on the employer who has to preempt these challenges now. Some companies dealt with it by offering 4G dongles and computers with longer battery endurance to ensure employees’ availability at all times. 

    The biggest upside of working from home for many is that they save on commuting time and costs. Many claims to be using these extra hours to finally achieve work-life balance, learn new skills and others said this has even reduced stress levels in employees. There are also claims of more focussed and productive work schedules. These reasons are enough for doing business with Global Tech & in this pandemic to we are capable enough to manage our Deliveries whether it’s service or Product based Tech Industry.

    Third Factor: Indian Techies always believes in providing & achieving a cost-cutting solution

    India has witnessed spectacular growth in the number of analytics startups over the last few years. In the last year, we have covered numerous analytics startups that are working in the areas of healthcare, fashion, real estate, agriculture, facilitating lending decisions, emotional intelligence, voice-based solutions, hybrid TV powered by AI, and many more. This is also indicative of the fact that India has emerged as a startup nation, with a robust ecosystem enabling startup founders and professionals to come up with innovative solutions in advanced analytics and kick-start their ventures. Outsourcing and specifically IT outsourcing is where you get IT and software developing services from an outside supplier by the virtue of a contract with them. It makes sense because setting up an in-house software development team is expensive, time-consuming, and not economically feasible for startups. The Information Technology Market in India has flourished and evolved like no other and it has emerged as a massive offshore software development zone for the development of Mobile Applications, Web Applications and other Product Development relates services. While the Major advantage of selecting India as your destination for software development outsourcing is Cost but the benefits are not just confined to it, you will be getting much more than that enabling you to lead the era of technological innovation and competitive edge. 

    India is facing massive competition from countries like China Czech Republic, Bulgaria, and Ukraine but it outshines them all when it comes to cost and quality of software being delivered because there is no geographical region that has achieved so much progress in this field. Indian IT companies and firms hire the best experts in Software Development who are well trained and experienced in developing Web and Mobile Applications using the latest cutting-edge technologies.

    Let’s look at some of the factors that make India the best choice for outsourcing IT-related outsourcing services & can establish its Global Presence in upcoming quarters

    1. Large Pool of Talented Resources
    2. Cost Advantage
    3. Fluency in the English Language:
    4. Next-Gen Technologies

    Fourth Factor: The Globalization of the Indian Tech Industry can bring back the resources (India routed Employees working overseas) to the country. We can bring back our Bright Minds.

    India has long branded itself as the world’s leading outsourcing destination for global companies, particularly for those in the technology sector – but in the Fourth Industrial Revolution, the time is ripe for the world’s most populous country to reinvent itself.

    There is a burgeoning start-up and innovation culture, as shown by the Global Innovation Index, where India has improved its ranking from 81 to 52 between 2015 and 2019. In addition, the country has improved its reputation in terms of the risk posed to foreign investments and, in 2019, ranked third in the world in terms of attracting investment for technology transactions.

    To maintain this momentum, India needs to further improve government regulations to encourage support for technological innovation, train tech talent, and incentivize it to stay in the country, and continue to improve its risk profile by attracting significant foreign and domestic investment in technology. Provided these favorable conditions can be met, India has unmatched potential to become the world’s next Silicon Valley.

    India has already started to undergo a technological transformation. Its population has moved along an exponential technology curve from barely any connectivity in 2014 to being the second most connected nation in the world, with 560 million internet users, as of this year, surpassed only by China. This technology penetration and connectivity was enabled by the increase the country has seen in smartphone users, from 86 million five years ago to 450 million today.

    The spread of technology has also created a fertile ground for start-ups. India was recently ranked as having the third-largest start-up ecosystem in the world, as the country now has 26 start-up companies valued at more than $1 billion each. This success rate has encouraged interest in digital entrepreneurship as a career path, which can help build a tech-savvy workforce. In a recent survey of young people in India, a third of the respondents indicated an interest in entrepreneurship as a career. Certainly, the country has all the right conditions for entrepreneurial growth supported by a combination of changing demographics and economic trends. Firstly, India has an unrivaled youth population (more than 65% of India’s 1.3 billion people are under the age of 35, with more than 50% under 25). Secondly, India is experiencing tremendous urbanization, with a rise in the migration of young people from rural areas to cities. From a consumer point of view, this creates a young, middle-class demographic with increased spending power and heightened interest in digital innovation. From a business perspective, this is also an appealing source of talent for the workforce. The hunger of Aspiring Minds with the right incentives and proper paychecks can bring back our outsourced & overseas employees.

    Fifth Factor: India believes in relational business rather than professional that’s Indians Key of Success

    A GOOD UNDERSTANDING OF THE UNDERLYING VALUES, BELIEFS, AND ASSUMPTIONS OF INDIAN CULTURE AND HOW THEY MANIFEST THEMSELVES IN THE MARKET AND WORKPLACE IS ESSENTIAL FOR THE SUCCESS OF YOUR BUSINESS.

    India is a vast, populous, and diverse nation encompassing many different identities, languages, cultures, and religions. It is very difficult to make generalizations about Indian culture. Depending on the type of Indian business you are dealing with, it is not common for middle management to have decision-making autonomy. Make sure the person you are negotiating with is senior enough to commit to business and partnership decisions. Do not begin business meetings by getting straight to the heart of the negotiation.

     

    Take a short time to ask personal questions about your contact’s family and background, covering topics such as how long they have worked in the company or industry and where they grew up. Make a concerted effort to be on time for formal business meetings, but be aware that they will not always start on time. Indians are less constrained by time than Australians. The ethics and etiquettes of Indian Business relationships and trust are important in India, so you should expect to spend plenty of time at meetings, dinners and social clubs with potential business partners. In a first meeting, let the Indian host guide the initial stages of the conversation. As in some other Asian cultures, Indians like to develop a personal connection first. So expect to be asked – and prepare to ask your own questions – about family.  

    Well, the above-mentioned Factors are the witness points that the world is going to consider the Indian Tech Industry as a Global Leader in upcoming decades.

    Note :- The above content is just a personal interpreted views of the author (mine) and all the references are hyperlinked as a part of credits.
    Images are open-sourced (google) so copyrights are not mentioned.

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  • There is only pure Love and “Jihad” is a fictitious term invented by Right-Wing Power Hate-mongers.

    There is only pure Love and “Jihad” is a fictitious term invented by Right-Wing Power Hate-mongers.

    We all remember that there were Mansur Ali Khan Pataudi & Sharmila Tagore. All this time, Muslim men married Hindu women and also the us the public are very much amused by their marriages. Also we remember , the dazzling Pataudis & Khans were well protected by celebrity status and they were deeply involved in community service and hence they had the state power, and may be because of which none at that time accused them of this term “love jihad”. On the other hand, if we look at the story for a common-couple who opt to marry outside their religion, their story is completely different. These common couples have to be at low bottom,at the mercy of the state and vigilante squads because they don’t have a celebrity status. You might also remember the well-known Akhila Ashokan or Hadiya married Shafin Jahan and they faced years of torment before the Supreme Court of India finally ruled in 2018 that ‘the right to marry an individual of one’s choice is integral to Constitutional Article 21.” But now we are living the era of fascist righteous valued ruling party’s India where today couples who break the religious barrier are shadowed & threatened by fears of committing ‘love jihad’.

    Sources: Scroll.in

    If we take a liberal perspective then for more like me “Love jihad” sounds gender neutral and its fall under the umbrella of Indian women feminism, but contradict to this in point of fact it’s a deleterious anti-woman term that is geared toward denying a proper agency and individual freedom to love to Indian women. Proponents (mongers) of love jihad see women as “hamaari bachchiyan” or “Hindu-betiyaan” as a mindless infantile objects who are controlled by Indian right-wing patriarchs. The same right wing proponents see Muslim men as some old-school perpetual Mahmud of Ghazni-stereotypical marauding `enemy-of-the-state’. But let’s talk reality that these proponents of acronym `love jihad’ are unable to digest that in 21st century , true love have the power to socially revolutionized the fascism/orthodox force that’s can destroy barriers of religion, caste, community and even gender and that’s the liberal India our forefather’s dream of.

    Sources: Getty Images

    The right-wing strong hindutva government are Liberty-destroying state power and has started intruding dangerously into and individual personal decisions like marriage choices and be in a relationship. Especially, the biggest right-winged ruled state “Uttar Pradesh” has promulgated an ridiculous ordinance that now criminalizes an inter-caste Hindu-Muslim marriages which are deemed “fraudulent/unethical” on the moral grounds that they’re designed to force religious conversions as per some state-policing and big media houses. The right wing forces in India are portraying such marriages as sinister attempts by Muslim men to convert Hindu women unwillingly. Other BJP-ruled states like Madhya Pradesh and Gujarat are endorsing similar laws. And when it comes to justification, these elected governments claim this legislation to be found critical because Muslim men use fake identities to lure and amuse Hindu women into conversion.

    Sources: The Quint

    Although, if we exclude the very fact that arduous statistics on such cases are extremely sketchy, laws to agitate such offences exist already in our IPC’s Section 420 against cheating, fraud or deception. Nor does it is not necessary or viable that every Hindu-Muslim marriage lead to conversion. In our constitution also, our Special Marriage Act constitutionally and legally allows Indian couples across religions to marry lawfully without changing their birth religions. Say for example, Actor Urmila Matondkar is married to a Muslim and she hasn’t converted in all these years. So Is there actually the very need for a separate law that offers the state such an incredible and enormous power over Indian citizens’ personal lives? Uttar pradesh, a Hindu-Muslim marriage and a one’s desire for conversion implies that the happy couple must inform the District Magistrate and moral UP police two months prior. So if we look at an other glance, these two months could become a conspired chance for harassment & torment for the couple, by own family, by own state, also by familiar spectre of moral policing which is the right wing vigilante squad.

    Sources: The Indian Express

    In all the right wing elected state, the militant orthodox traditionalists detest love & their intermarriage. But our independent India’s founding fathers wholeheartedly supported inter-religious marriage back in 40s, rightly seeing it as an indication of social progress and enhancement of democracy for a healthy Indian Values. When Indira Nehru, a Hindu, married Feroze Gandhi, a Parsi, Mahatma Gandhi said, “Such unions are absolute to benefit society.” Babasaaheb Ambedkar was convinced intermarriages could liberate India from caste prejudice and it did back then. “The actual real solution and feasible remedy for breaking or even eradicating the Indian caste-barriers is intermarriage,” said Ambedkar. In fact, these hindu propogandonist BJP leaders M A Naqvi and Shahnawaz Hussain are married to Hindus and Sushil Modi is married to a Christian and they are happy to be honest.

    Atlast, if I have to conclude these whole genre of individual freedom versus the ability of a partisan ideologically-statedriven to impose a patriachy forced collective identity on individuals. Indian Women’s empowerment is an officially echoed mantra, yet there’s a indian systematic denial of a woman’s right to decide on her life/love partner or perhaps convert if she chooses to. Hadiya kept insisting she freely converted to Islam because she was drawn to its tenets and that is the only and should be the only explaination. Dr. Ambedkar publicly converted to Buddhism as a Dalit liberation from caste and he was solely involved in this decision and set a milestone example in that era. Eventually , the liberty to choose and live on one’s own believed spiritual path is enshrined and honored in India’s Constitution. The current state power machineries should play any role in suspecting that who a citizen chooses to love or which god she chooses to worship. If a personal chooses to alter his/her religion, for either social, spiritual or perhaps frivolous reasons or even he/she don’t want to reveal, others like closed family memebers can commit to persuade, but violent state power mustn’t be deployed or act against a free personal choice.

    India’s proclaim and trumpeted beautiful diversity isn’t just a marvelous series of colorful regional floats to indicate off at the 26th January parade. Diversity are truly meaningful in our country only if we celebrate them  instead of criminalizes Hindu-Muslim marriages or any inter-caste marriages. Back in 40s like Gandhian & Nehruvian campaigns on eradication and elimination of social norms and evils, perhaps it’s time for a Indian citizen’s of 2020 to  campaign in defense of affection, love unrestricted by caste, community or religion. Love whoever you want and marry that loved one. The Nation will protect your relationship because that’s what our founding fathers promised to our generations unlike today’s right-wingers.

    Note:- Some views are referenced to certain Times Of India News Articles & Images references are mentioned.

  • Productivity culpability & guiltiness

    Productivity culpability & guiltiness

    Ever heard of Productivity Culpability, indiscretion by chance? No…? Well, in that case, let me explain it to you (And how you yourself can prevent this guiltiness?)

    Well starting from this conventional advice that you should really exercise four times per week…duhh! Not just jogging though, high-intensity interval training. And do intermittent fasting. And drink two gallons of water a day. Don’t forget to meditate.

    If you’re not waking up at 4 am, you’re missing the most productive hours of the day. Did you watch some television? You could have been using that time for reading books. Not just popular books and novels though. You should be reading classics from Seneca, Aurelius, and Laozi.

    Productivity guiltiness is this. It’s the constant ongoing nagging feeling that you should be doing more & more. And if you’re not doing everything as you should, then you’re a lazy slacker ass who will never reach your goals or pretentious target.

    Causes behind this heavy fancy word “Productivity culpability?

    To be honest Blogs like this one are probably a big contributor to productivity guilt. I know..I’m sorry.

    Unfortunately, this is a side-effect of offering advice and giving suggestions to everyone. For some people, the suggestions will be helpful in solving their problems. For others, they will be too much and just make them feel guilty. This quote is much justifiable that It’s hard as a writer to have the former without the latter.

    Hardcore advice is inspiring to some. Even easy suggestions can be guilt-inducing for others. There’s no way to only do one without the other.

    How to Prevent this discretion/guilt?

    Fortunately, you have the power & energy to prevent this feeling guilty thing. In a nutshell, there are three steps to help avoid how you may feel:

    1. Accept the fact that you’ll always be imperfect.

    Believe me, that’s okay. Everyone is. Nobody, including me myself, does everything perfectly all the time. I’ve written & edited this blog for over the fourth time now with many references. There are over 1100 articles, most of which have some kind of advice or suggestion. Combined, that’s way too much for anyone to do simultaneously, permanently.

    For me honestly, I go through phases where my habits evolve. My old ideas & narratives I wrote about to get replaced with new ones. Not always because the new is better than the old, but because I’m always changing (as will you) & getting better. If you see, instead, that everything I’ve written about is a static and permanent part of who I am and how I think when you sum it all up, you’ll get to something that’s probably unmanageable as a whole & that’s the thing.

    Of course, I trust not everyone sees it this way. This is simply what one might naively expect if they skimmed  1200+ articles archives…

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    2. You Shouldn’t Be Your Ideal Self: Perfection isn’t practical

    The first thing is realizing & accepting that perfection isn’t practical. The second step is realizing that it isn’t even desirable & achievable.

    Usually, the advice is a direction, not a destination. This means that moving from where you are now, in the direction it points, will probably produce surely benefits you. But taking everything to its logical extreme or conclusion often isn’t actually very good.

    Sometimes this can happen by simply stacking a lot of individually single good pieces of advice that, if taken too far and too many, can start to have drawbacks. Consider the list of common advice at the start of this blog. Each piece, on its own, is probably good and it keep getting better. But the sum total of them, even if you could execute them, would leave very little time and energy left in the day for mundane but important things.

    Alternate times, the ideal picture can be bad because while a marginal shift in one direction is helpful, a total shift in that direction is not that’s how the universe works. Spending less time on social media and communication platforms is probably good. But if you had zero contact, that might start to create more social interference than the productivity it generated and you’ll get your output.

    Social media is just a possible example. Many other vices are probably best in moderation–but moderation is hard.

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    3. Your Starting Point is Always Here: Start from the beginning 

    Let me phrase it in this way that the real source of the guilt, however, isn’t because the standards imposed are too unrealistic or even undesirable, but because there’s always a gap between how we see ourselves and how we would like to be. You can call it obsession too!

    The right move to make is always one that pushes you a little but takes where you are as a starting point. That also includes your psychological strengths and weaknesses.

    I recently had a Twitter exchange with a few people who have been wanting to learn something new, but keep putting it off. You can see the guilt they feel, that they haven’t been able to make progress.

    But this is the wrong way to look at it. Yes, it would be nice if we were perfect beings with infinite discipline, time, freedom, resources, and intelligence. But we’re not. We’re always starting as flawed people, trying to make things a little better for ourselves.

    The question is never and will be, “What should I do, eventually, to solve this problem?” Instead, it’s always, “How could I do things a little differently or change the narrative than last time for a little better positive results?”

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    Being productive is good, Acquiring productivity guilt is bad

    Trying to improve ourselves is a good thing. But too much guilt doesn’t help you do that. If you’ve been feeling a lot of guilt lately, here’s a few things you can do:

    1. Choose a few goals to work on (maybe only one) and tell yourself it’s okay to not work on other things for this instance.
    2. Please for god sakes, stop comparing yourself to other people. Those people you admire also have flaws they don’t reveal. You should definitely work on improving & improvising yourself, not feeling guilty because you don’t see yourself reaching somebody else’s standards or bars.
    3. Differentiate the nice-to-have from the essential ones. A maximum number of advice that we hear is nice-to-have—it helps, but only a little or for a limited period. But instead, If you are willing to focus on the essential things that matter for your few goals, then you will stop feeling guilty or low about everything else.
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    Most of all, stop telling yourself that above-mentioned guilt are good for you. Having a pang of guilt keeps you motivated, but it does so at high costs and with a lot of side-effects as add-ons. You may not choose how you feel, but you can’t possibly adjust it if you think that non-stop guilt about not doing enough is somehow an ideal state. So In a nutshell and being a Millenial Please aim yourself to be slow and patient instead because your later version is going to be better than your former ones and you’ll get most of the results with a lot less of the anxiety.

    Well, that’s it for now, do remember that we are in a time of crisis and all you have to do is take a chill pill. For god sake’s it’s Friday night, pop-up a Beer, invite some of your friends and watch Champions League match or maybe watch Lucifer’s latest season on Netflix or you know do whatever you want.!

    But do remember that you’re beautiful and you deserve everything:)

    With kindest regards,
    Rohan

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  • Indigent & destitute “Indian Migrants”: No one’s people

    Indigent & destitute “Indian Migrants”: No one’s people

    I know as offensive and disheartening the title of this article sounds to you but believe me the situation what it actually depicts is more disheartening & terrifying and it will bring you to tears. The Plight of Migrants Remains the Foremost Casualty of India’s Covid-19 Response.

    Sources: Getty Images

    The defining visuals of Indian Migrants in four lockdowns with bags perched on their heads and kids in their arms, walking down highways in an exceedingly desperate attempt to return to their villages many miles away.

    The virus is exposing yet again India’s deep economic divide, and also exposes the government’s apathy toward the workers who power the country’s growth.

    His Majesty (in-sarcastic voice, ofcourse), PM Narendra Modi ordered the lockdown with less than four hours’ notice. “Forget what it’s like stepping out of the house for 21 days. Stay at home and only stay at home,” he said. He mentioned nothing specific about the daily-wage earners—mostly migrant workers—whose income, in an instant, disappeared. These migrant laborers are among the most vulnerable parts of the “informal sector,” which make up 80 percent of India’s workforce. Our country’s infrastructure & base is built on the backs of these workers to be honest. They construct & architect the malls, multiplexes, hospitals, apartment blocks, hotels. They work as factory hands, delivery boys, loaders, cooks, painters, rickshaw pullers. They stand the whole day by the side of the road selling fruits and vegetables and tea and flowers.
    Sources (Read: India Is No Longer India)

    Where do they come from and why are they here in our metropolitan?

    Sources: MMCL 2020

    These migrant workers often come to yours and mine cities to look for work, because they cannot make a living in their village. They are rarely part of a trade union and typically work without any contract or benefits. Most earn cash, and do not leave a paper trail and do not have any record. They are also disproportionately from historically marginalized groups, referred to, in the country’s official lexicon, as “scheduled castes” (those at the bottom of Hinduism’s hierarchy of castes) and tribal groups yes we can’t deny this fact. Nationally, these two groups make up about 25 percent of the population (sources: recent voter’s list). India’s constitution, adopted in 1950, guarantees them equality of opportunity, reserved positions in educational institutions, government jobs, seats in Parliament and in the state assemblies but this really happened in reality?. In practice, however, they often face discrimination and prejudice. The night Modi instituted the lockdown, migrant workers started leaving Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai, Kolkata & even in my city Ahmedabad, and just about every other city to which the economic opportunities had drawn them in the first place. They knew they could not afford to stay in the city if they had no income & yaa that’s the only reason. In their village, they had family, wouldn’t have to pay rent, and were more likely to get something to eat. All buses, trains, and taxis had been stopped, so they had no transportation. News reports said workers were stranded in railway stations. Even there were incidents where Some of the migrant workers tried to surreptitiously flee in the large commercial container trucks & trailors  carrying essential commodities, but they were intercepted & were left on their feet in these 45 degree heat .

    Sources: NDTV

    So the people started walking, first in a trickle and then in a flood. By the following evening, a shocked nation saw images of thousands walking down highways. More than half a million people have left India’s cities. At least 20 have died while trying to make it home. This mass movement surprised authorities. Clearly, no influential person had planned for such a reaction, and no detailed contingency plans gave the impression to be in place. Officials issued frantic orders to seal interstate borders and for people to maintain their distance from others so that the virus could not spread. They said that those on the move should quarantine for 14 days. Yet how could they?

    The government asked voluntary organizations to help, and when soup kitchens and shelters were set up, they were soon packed with people. A few state governments provided buses for the migrant workers, but numerous needed a ride that the lines were half a mile long. Migrant workers never seem to be much of a consideration for politicians. This episode is only one of many examples of that fact. These workers, despite their numbers, haven’t any political clout. Many are registered to vote in their village. But when election day comes, they are usually in the city where they work and unable to cast a ballot. Statistically, they are almost invisible. Because they continuously shift between villages & cities along with different work sites as a result capturing their number is difficult. The federal government’s 2017 economic survey said, “If the share of migrants in the workforce is estimated to be even 20 percent, the size of the migrant workforce can be estimated to be over 100 million.” The new coronavirus has given migrants a sudden visibility within the national discourse. But the acuteness of their plight today is a result of the fact that India ignored them during normal times.

    Atlast, I am shivering even writing this incident down & this recent incident is so horrifying.

    A three year old baby plays and tries to uncover a shroud covering its dead mother at one of the stations in Bihar, in one of the foremost tragic & horrifying visuals to witness  from the daily reports of migrants stranded by the coronavirus lockdown & these migrations.

    In an AV clip widely shared on social media platforms, the toddler (child) tugs at the material placed over his mother’s dead body. After some efforts, the cloth comes off but his mother doesn’t move as  she had died moments before. According to the dead woman’s family, she died of utmost heat, hunger and dehydration. (Sources at NDTV) The clip is from a station in Muzaffarpur in Bihar, where the 23-year-old woman had arrived during a special train for migrants on Monday (this week). At an equivalent station, a two-year-old child also died, reportedly from heat on top of inadequate food and water supplies. According to the sources The child and mother’s family had boarded a special train from Delhi on Sunday since then the woman, consistent with her family members, had been unwell on the train due to the inadequate shortage of food and water. Her reports say that she had taken a train from Ahmedabad, Gujarat on Saturday to be precise. On Monday, shortly before the train rolled into Muzaffarpur, she collapsed & became unconscious.

    Very soon after her body was laid out on the station platform, her 2-3 year old little son kept playing and trying to wake her until an older child(may be her sibling) dragged him away. According to the officials at the Railways Ministry states that  the lady had been unwell when she got on the train and therefore the family got off at Muzaffarpur station when she died because of this emergency. 

    Sources: India Today Network

    Atlast, millions of migrant workers and their families were left to defend themselves after India went into shutdown in late March. With No Job and money, the migrants began for their homes thousands of kilometres away, walking or on cycles, autos or trucks or even barefooted. Several died before they might reach home, somein road accidents or from hunger and exhaustion. In May, the govt. started special migrant trains to need migrants home, but the complex tactic has been very vexed by paperwork and glitches, which led to many still making their own desperate arrangements to go home & leading to pay expensive fares. In the soaring heat of Indian Summer, migrant families are forced to attend in queues (like in ghaziabad), either for tickets or at centres where they’re screened &  declared virus-free to travel on trains and then allowed to travel. As we are in the end of May, the Temperatures have touched 50 degrees in parts of India quite a few times, adding to the suffering of labourers and families on the move and making it worse.  The Government officials suspected & admitted  that lack of coordination between the centre and states has worsened the arrangements on the trains and at stations & empty-shelled financial packages are bringing the morale down.

    History will be remembered that the ones who build Indian Homes were found dead in their journey to their own homes and inspite of these many privileges, we can’t even feed our own people a basic meal & accommodation. We lost their trust and at some point we actually lost them too.

    This is an apology to the “No one’s people and that is our dear Indian Migrant. Dear lord help us!

    Note: Views & Opinions are personal. References are hyperlinked. Copyright restricted.

  • Do I need to stop rushing into love? Pain of Unrequited Love have afflicted me since teenage.

    Do I need to stop rushing into love? Pain of Unrequited Love have afflicted me since teenage.

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    Dear self, stop fighting or expecting from someone who doesn’t love you. Move on and stop hurting yourself over a love that will never work. Have some dignity and cut off this emotional dictatorship at its roots. Be brave and say, “I’ll stop thinking about you because I love myself.” Yes. I know I know that it isn’t easy. I am fully aware that my brain has no restart button, emergency exit, or even a window that I could open to let the fresh breeze in and air out my sorrows. The brain is stubborn, methodical, and persistent. It fights to cling to emotional memories, because those are the ones that leave such a huge mark on my identity.

    However, my love or may be infatuation isn’t a vending machine. You can’t put in a coin, press a button, and get the thing you wanted, although I wish this would’ve been true. But believe me sometimes, there’s no other remedy than to take the plunge, forget all false hopes, and I need to stop killing myself over someone who’s gone in a different direction & I never existed for her even though I was always in front of her. Every single day, I am hoping that today she’ll be noticing me , my presence, my small-talks, but here I am writing this blog about how me myself taking me down in demanding for things that never made sense. Sometimes, my brain ask to my heart that “Hey Rohan, do you have that thing? And my heart is like what? And my Brain mic-drops and says “Self-esteem”. And all of a sudden, I am feeling pity. I know, I know… you’all be be thinking why am I criticizing myself at social platform.

    But the answer to this is that “Turn your grief into Literature” -I don’t who said it first but it make sense and atleast here I can criticize her though I love her.

    Okay readers. so here we go, let say we call every girl or crush from my past & in present with the term “She” to make it sound less controversial.

    The First “She”.
    Well I don’t want to talk much about it as it wasn’t relevant right now. “She”(the first girl/crush) didn’t even consider herself to be together with me. May be because, we were both child back then or may be she acted way more childish when I confessed my feeling for her over texts or calls. I mean you can’t imagine the outburst. She just removed me from every part of her life & didn’t even care to hear an explanation from my side. Well, I can’t blame her for her behavior but I will. Because I owe her an explanation & also this was the first feeling I ever had for anyone & it was pure. But unfortunately, it wasn’t mutual. Thinking of it now, years later we are actually very good friends and we both laughed out at the things that happened to us before. I have to confess, till this date when I am around her it’s like time never passed and she’s the funniest person I’ve ever known or will know. Infact, I credit her for my little bit of sense of humor too. Ughh.. I wish , i could ever turn back time to that glorious days of my life. Those good-damn teenage years.

    The second “She”
    She wasn’t that much of a important character but yeah we really hit it off back then. She was the first female friend in my freshman year. And I was her first guy friend too. She was totally different from the personalities i would have fall for. But may be that’s the only reason I started liking her. I don’t know if it can be called a “Date” but yaa I went to grab some snacks with her during that time. That’s the only date (if i can say) I ‘ve ever been too. Later she made new friends & with the time pass, we started to fall apart. She just isolated me and she left the city too without even bothering to say any goodbyes to her only first guy friend or if i could say her first friend back then. But it’s ok I guess, I was just a “matter-of-time” friend until she founded a group of friend. But yaa I am over it & we text in a year (being sarcastic)…ughhh moving on!!

    The third “She” (ohh bouuyy.. I had to go therapy for this lady, I mean just to move on but somehow my therapy failed and I am still clinging to her!)
    This one’s very special for me. May be she’s the one that I ‘ve been looking for all these years. Every “She” I’ve been fallen for, she’s the one who’s worth fighting for even if I have to get humiliate every now & then but I’ll fight every bit of it just to have some moments before she leaves the country yes that’s right , she’s leaving too. I am sensing a pattern here of every “She” leaving me. But this “She” is my god, she’s everything that I ‘ve been dreaming of all these years. It’s been one and half years since I have started feelings for her. I am dealing with these feelings every single day and every day feels like it’s never enough of her. The first day i saw her, the moment I realized that it’s going to be like the above two “she”. But this time even if it happens again, I won’t regret it.
    The third “She”, let say she doesn’t deals with me all the day I mean we are at different aspects. Still I find every possible moment to just do some small talk with her. She gel ups with every other person now & then which are co-related through the day but when it comes to me, she dodges the situation by saying being busy & it kills me inside. She’s a foodie & I knew it that’s why I always find a opportunity to ask her whether she wants any of the stuff to eat that I am grabbing or not? but every time she says no. Sometimes it gets humiliating for me but still I am making every damn effort in trying to make some moments before she leaves the country.
    I notice when she’s having an upset mind, i notice when she’s having an work-stress outbreak & I always try to cheer her up.I knew she thinks of me as just an another person that is associated with her professionally but I know that deep-down she knows that I would never let her down even if i get humiliated in doing so. I know from the beginning that she is going to leave country eventually and there’s nothing I can do about it except to have her back at tough times. I wish I could make her stay or may be have some moments by having dinner or may be a walk or just a long talk at her favorite spots.

    At the end, I only want to say is that The anatomy of rejection and abandonment is brutal, profound, and complex. 

    As Shakespeare said and I also learned that I cannot demand love from anyone. I can only give good reasons for them to like me…and be patient for life to do the rest.”

    So yaa, this was me all over these years. The reasons for my therapy, the reasons for my emotional out-breaks & the reason that I am Single AF!

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